In the Defense of Men

Culture War. MGTOW, the other "red pill"... my views

If it is the ONE thing I hate is seeing a really kind, handsome and good man that gets FUCQ over and annihilated by a bitch of a woman.

Men Going Their Own Way or the other “red pilled” man channels on YouTube like Steve James (https://www.youtube.com/@stevejameschannel), Better Bachelor (https://www.youtube.com/@BetterBachelor), Fresh and Fit (https://www.youtube.com/@FreshFitMiami) are among the first that comes to mind when I think of MGTOW. Even Jack Morgan RLP (https://www.youtube.com/@JackMorgan_RLP) has some videos on this, whether he wants to admit to it or not, whether he is dating someone or not, he discusses current state of modern dating.

After I broke up with my last boyfriend in 2018, I felt drawn to the Better Bachelor and other channels. I watched a lot of it and I mixed it with the Minimalists channels while I was trying to figure myself out and where I was supposed to go. I was fascinated about what the men were talking about. I saw how burned they were from their marriages that they were divorced from. I was even trying to figure if I was a problem with all my ex-boyfriends as I examined this and watched almost religiously for months post break up. I have compassion for these men. Some sounded so burned that they would never date or touch a woman again, hence the new INCEL thing, incel: a member of an online community of young men who consider themselves unable to attract women sexually, typically associated with views that are hostile toward women and men who are sexually active (the google Dictionary definition).

I still clock in a lot of hours in watching these channels because I am still fascinated. However, it is because now the fascination is because society and our culture has made things worse for humans to date each other.

Most of you all know that I never married. Therefore, I never divorced. I was in a lot of trauma after seeing my college classmates, relatives and others get divorced in front of my eyes in this lifetime. For some couples I saw their whole courtship. For others, I saw their downfall before it even began. Whatever the case may be, I saw a LOT of divorce. Even though I am also surrounded by happy married people like my grandparents (my Dad’s folks) and my own parents, I am still get shocks in my body when thinking of divorce.

I found it far easier for me to write about the defense of me on the culture war because men are simple. Men are logical, adaptable, “strategical” and practical. They are not easily influenced by things that get shoved in their face. Some good men stick around their woman even when times get tough or even if he doesn’t love her any more. Some good men will marry his girlfriend as much as she pushes him and pushes him and then she pulls the trigger on the divorce. As Jack Morgan would say, “I can even pick out a homeless girl, clean her up and take her home,” something like that, it is not his exact quote but it sums it up. Men want to be in a partnership more than we acknowledge.

Men are simple creatures. I follow GigaBasedDad on X (https://x.com/GigaBasedDad) just so I can repost memes on how simple men want it and how a good man is the foundation of a great family. I do not fully blame men for the current situation we are in, through all this culture war.

For most, if not all, of my life — I have seen many good men get burnt by their ex-wives. I have no idea that it is now a con “game” to even marry just to divorce, which was one of my thoughts as I watched people get divorced early on. Then there’s the other thing where a woman “traps a man with a child” thing. I was warned about that in a Human Sexuality class in college, which was alarming to me that women do that and still do it. I didn’t know that this became a business or a “level up” as men are being used and abused by the women that they have relationships with. Now imagine it multiplied. It is a section on the internet that is now its own movement of the sort so much so that I even heard that the feds have infiltrated it. I don’t have any solid evidence of it but I would not be surprised.

Finding love on this planet is tough enough as it is. Now I am realizing just how horrific it can be because men stopped participating in society. Men no longer want any relationships. Hence, men are literally are going their own way. Some are burned that they just go into the hookup culture thing instead of doing any settling down. The relationship with a woman that seems to be in the middle of it all although now it appears that being single is becoming the new normal.

I am just a simple gal that has hella homies or men for friends. I love my guy friends a lot and I want nothing but the best for them. I don’t like seeing or hearing about another divorce or relationship because it gets disheartening with my hopes for my own future. I do not know the solution to this because we seem to be in the middle of a culture war and societal collapse as we speak. As a single woman and a child of God, I wish to still find a wholesome relationship. I am praying that enough single rational women on the planet can help reverse this. God only knows.

The family unit is the best FUUUUCQ to the evil lizard overlords on this planet. It has been destroyed and tarnished for too long. Humans have to do their part to preserve it although I am scared to hold my breath.